Once you’re been dating the same guy for a while, its easy to relax. In that first blush of red-hot romance, no effort seems to great. Intoxicated by love or lust or both, you swipe your lips with a delicious gloss and shell out a ten of money for a bottle of fragrance no large than your big toe. You take extreme yoga just so you can wrap your legs around his neck. And it pays off.
Then at some point you begin to feel comfortable. Maybe its six months into the relationship when you’ve started spending every weakened at one another’s place or when you’ve actually gone ahead and moved in together. You gain 5 pounds and don’t sweat it- you’ll get back to the 9ym one of these days.
Temptingly easy to commit such small insidious aids can lead to a big problem; an overdose of families. These are the little behaviour you can so easily drift into that together have a potential to kill of a relationship magnetism mystery and sex appeal.
Below are the seven common sins of too coming couples and advice on how to keep sexual allure alive.
1. GIVING GIFTS HIS MOM WOULD BUY
Ever notice how guys don’t take it upon themselves to surprise you with your favorite deodorant? Yet women seem to glory in presenting their lover with a three-pack of boxer shorts. You may thinks it shows how close you are to him but you also risk jumping from lover to mom (ew!).
When you still want to fell hot for each other, a special fountain pen is fine; what if he truly needs underwear? Pick out some boxer briefs you think he will look sexy in-----and tell him so.
2. FLOSSING TOGETHER
Do you really want to watch your dream lover picking the night’s meal from between his teeth? Do you want him to see you it? Worse. How about witnessing you wax the five o’clock shadow beneath the pert tittles nose he loves to kiss? Just close the bathroom door and maintain as much mystery as possible. Let him see you at your best. And don’t think of doing anything on the toilet in his presence (and encourage him not to do same.
2. DRIFTING INTO A SEX RUT
It’s a classic scenic: you’ve discovered what workers for each of you in bed, so you cut to the chase and do only that. Do not believe that just because you are sexual with your partner, you know exactly what really that man wants in bed if its becoming evident that your are going to be in his life for a long time he may not tell you what really turns him on for fear of rejection often men who cheat on their wives or girlfriend, end up having one kind of sex at home, perhaps , more adventurous, kind of sex with their other women And don’t be a slave to sex schedules . Containing it solely to bedtime and the bedroom. How much more thinking would it be to show up one day unannounced at his job, come into his office , shut the door and tell your lover who thinks he knows everything about you; don’t say a word . I m going to be here for exactly 10 minutes . try to be spontaneous.
3 Baring All , All the time
In one of the episodes of a particular soap opera, a guy qrumbles that his new girlfriend spends too much time in the nude. That seems like a strange complaint for a guy into make but think about it few of us truly want to see a nuked person squat to pick up a sock off the floor. Overexposure may anesthetize your man to how provocative your nude form is . so make un effort to keep the vision of your unclothed body special. Id go as far as to say that nudity should be connected only to sex. Not to house work or to readily in bed . id go even further and say there is no need for your lover to see you getting dressed
4 Flaunting your flaws
You are well past formal dating , his razor is at your place , his dog is sleeping over too . this is a critical time as you stand the risk of getting sick of each other. You think what difference does it make if I talk to him about my dental problems? Because he loves you . but would you tell him of that same problem on your first date
Since you wouldn’t do that on your first date it is of no use doing it later. if you think you have any flaw , do not flaunt it , rather , the bottom-line is fixed or forget
5 DRESSING DOWN, DOWN , DOWN
Once you are a couple its easy to fall into bed wearing sweats and an old tee shirt , but it makes the bedroom a less magical place . the problem is that you can be very well loved and yet not remain sexually attractive to your partner. So get out a few of those teddies from your dating days. Every night after a new opportunity to look , it not fantastic at lent a little special else you are sending a message that going to bed with him is business as usual
6 SPENDING EVERY NIGHT TOGETHER
The deadliest sin is that of crowding one another too much togetherness is a surefire way to cool passion. If he glues onto you every so often tell him , this weekend in unavailable. Whether you keep your own apartments or have moved in together, resave at least one night in a week to go out with your friends. Taking separate vacations is another fun way to create a little air of mystery , because you don’t know the persons every movehey its also a great opportunity for phone sex.
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